Boys, I’m not ashamed to admit I do put out, but it will take more than just an e-mail from you.

I have been getting more and more into online dating lately. For me personally, its the easiest way to meet guys I like and avoid getting caught.

Want to know more about me? Want to see my photos and may be meet face to face, and who knows what else?

Go and create a free profile on this site then send me your profile. I’ll get in touch if I can.

Speak to you later,

Jane

P.S. Billy (sexybill) if you are reading this, thanks for the photos. Love them xxx

My husband recently went overseas for eight months. While we were constantly in touch, the loneliness was killing me.

One evening (it had been about six months since he’d left), a friend of mine dropped in with her husband for a drink or two. She ended up drunk and unconscious after a few hours. I let her rest in my bedroom. Her husband and I were still sober. He began telling me how it was all falling apart for them.

I confided in him about my loneliness. Minutes later, we were all over each other, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Fortunately, my friend didn’t come to until late next afternoon.

We got ourselves sorted out before she did. We’ve decided to keep it a secret and told each other it was a one-off thing. I feel guilty, though.

Should I tell my husband anyway and hope he’d understand?

My husband began drinking after being sober for 15 years. I was so disturbed by this and began having little mental breakdowns.

One night while I was at work I was very upset and cried to my boss, he held me and kissed me and this is not something my husband has been able to do in our marriage. It felt wonderful, but this guy moved away for 6 months. After he came back we began having an affair.

My husband thought something was going on between the two of us, but only talked about it while he had been drinking and would become angry with me while he was talking about it. I told him each time that nothing was happening.

I had ended this affair over a year ago, but my husband has just informed me about two months ago, that he had a digital recorder in my car for the past 2 years and knows it all. He not only heard me and this guy together, but watched us on two occasions. I have heard way to much from him to know it’s true, he has told me about things only he could have heard if he’d been there.

He said he never told me about it because he didn’t want the confrontation, or the out come of it all. Now that he knew it was over he confronted me with it. We talked, and he says he wants us to work out, he wants me and him to be together forever, but there’s a problem…he cannot seem to get over all that he’s heard and seen. He thinks about this 24 hours a day 7 days a week. He said that he thinks he was able to control it so well before because he was drinking, but now that he knows just how upsetting his drinking was to me, he has stopped. He acts like he never knew just how bad it was on me, but yet, he watched me have these little mental breakdowns and would hold me and tell me he was so sorry, and say things like, now would be a good time for me to stop, yet, a week later he was back at it again. He says his drinking got worse after he found out what was going on with me and this guy, I can’t blame him for that at all, but it’s over and done with and my husband mental state is not normal by any means. He never stops thinking of this affair I had and is ALWAYS stressed from it. He says to me all the time, this has to go away or it will kill me. I don’t know what to do to help him. Sometimes I think he’s doing it to me for a payback. I just don’t know what to think or do, but we have both suffered enough and it’s time this all goes away.

He is on medication to help him through his days, but he can’t even make love to me without seeing me and this guy together when he does.

He wanted a threesome with me and my best friend when I was younger and after five years of begging me for it, I set it up. Big mistake, but when I showed my upset over it, he would say, oh, come on, you wanted it, you set it up. Now if I tell him I know how he feels, because that hurt me when it happened, my feelings again, are just pushed aside. He tells me, this is different, I didn’t go behind your back, it didn’t go on and on and last for a year and a half. I told him, well, sex with someone else is sex with someone else, whether it happened once or six times, it happened and I have feelings too.

I had a very strange experience a few weeks ago and I decided to share it with you.

There is this guy at work, Mr. P, who I have been working closely with for the last month or so. Really sweet guy, always well dressed and with a positive attitude.

Because of our professional relationship and the fact that he is not really my type, I have never looked at him “that way”. I’m sure you know what I mean.

But then something happened. A group of us went out for lunch, which is something we do at least a couple of times a month. During the lunch I caught myself starring at Mr. P. All of a sudden I started having some “dirty thoughts” and felt an urgent need to rip off his clothes and have sex with him in the bathroom.

I could hardly contain myself. He was sitting next to me and I couldn’t help myself but try and touch his leg or arm every time I was speaking to him.

I think he noticed my reaction and was definitely not surprised. He was being rather “touchy and flirty” himself.

On the way back to the office we stole a moment and he said “How about a quick drink after work?”. I couldn’t do any work that afternoon. All I could think was Mr P and the things I want to do to him.

We skipped the drink and went straight to his place. It was like in one of those movies where you start kissing from the door and keep loosing clothes why desperately trying to make it to the bedroom.

The sex was very, very passionate and I came twice!

The shocking moment came later on when we were talking in bed. I told him how I felt during lunch and that I couldn’t really explain my actions. At that point he smiled and told me he had sprayed himself with this! For a second I felt cheated but then I laughed sooo hard . “I’m glad you did” I said “I really had so much fun”.

We decided we better not make it a permanent thing because of work, but it really was an experience I’ll never forget.

But here is the thing – most men hate toys! I guess most of them feel threaten or redundant in some way or another, but guys let me tell you that is not the case at all.

A vibrator is not meant to replace you in any way, it is just something to have fun and play it. After all it is called a toy not a tool.

My husband asked me once “What do you want for you birthday?”. I said “I don’t know, may be a ‘rabbit’”? He said “Don’t be silly, the dog will eat it” I nearly wet myself laughing.

I tried to introduce “Mr. Naughty” (as I call my vibrator) into our sex life even before we were married but the response I got was “If that thing gets in our bed, I’m sleeping on the couch”.

I think that a man’s attitude towards sex toys says a lot about his abilities in bed. If he is a confident lover who has believe in his own ability to satisfy a woman, he will have no reason to feel threaten at all.
In fact, I have had the pleasure of meeting a few men (not as many as I would like) who were more than happy to share the bed with “Mr Naughty” and would embrace any other fantasy role play or dressing up.
At the end of the day, it is all about having fun, right boys?

I can’t say I had planned it but at the same time I have to admit that the thought of having sex with another man had crossed my mind.

I guess we have to be careful with the law of attraction as it seems that we really do get what we wish for.

Maybe those cheating thoughts have changed my body language, the look in my eyes and have made me more approachable, sometimes even flirty.

I was on a business trip in Chicago and decided to have a drink before going back to my hotel room. It had been a tough day with all the travelling and meetings I had to go to.

The bar was half empty, but for some reason I found myself sitting next a rather handsome man who looked like he needed a drink too.

The usual bar chat and small talk took place and I don’t think either of us was making a move straight away. His name was Ben, married, salesman.. a bit of a cliché really.

Then as we were having yet another drink and getting to know each other a bit better…. there was a moment!

You know, when you look at someone’s eyes and you think to yourself “Yeah, of course I would” and you know that in that exact same moment the other person is thinking the same.

We went to my room. The truth is that I got rather excited. As excited as I haven’t been for years. I had forgotten what it is like to sleep with someone for the first time.

I was a bit rusty especially on the BJ front, but I made up for it with passion. He was gentle and gladly “returned the favour”…

The sex wasn’t that great but the whole experience was unbelievable. At the end of the night there was no “Are you going to call me?” or “Let’s do this again”.

We just said to each other “Thanks”.

Here are the reasons given:

#1 Being stuck in an unsatisfactory relationship and feeling lonely

#2 Feeling unattractive

#3 Revenge

#4 Boredom

#5 Women nowadays having more contacts in men

#6 Working

#7 Temptations

#8 Inability of the man to fulfill her sexually

#9 Lack of supportive partner

#10 Unhappy relationship

Ok, some points I think are overlapping and others are just rubbish.

What is actually interesting is that the woman is never the blame.  Well, let me tell you something. Some women cheat just because they are sluts. They are not bored, they are not looking for revenge and they couldn’t find a better partner than the one they already have.

But they just excited about the idea of screwing strangers.

When will our society start accepting this fact!

34% of women cheat on their husbands so go ahead and share your story with the world.

You don’t have to revile your real name or any other personal information and your e-mail will never be published anywhere.

What he doesn’t know is that I have been cheating on him for the last 2 years. And I’m not talking about having an affair with his best friend or jumping in bed with the neighbour.

I meet men with the sole purpose of having sex with them. Men I don’t know and rarely see ever again.

My husband is a lovely man, he really is, but our sex life is a disaster. He has given me the grand total of 1 (that’s one) orgasm.

At one point I asked myself, is it better to go through live being miserable or have sex with other men and get on with my life.

Believe it or not, cheating has helped my marriage. I’m happier, more confident and treat my husband better because I don’t blame him for my sexual dissatisfaction. If I want sex I go out and get it rather than wait for him to suddenly turn into a sex god.

So there you go, I’m a cheating wife and proud of it.